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How does one succeed in life?

15.06.2025 00:09

How does one succeed in life?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Is it wise to choose your family over your honor?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

What would you do if you were lost at sea in the Florida Keys?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Why is there so much hate against black people?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Have you ever had a scary dream about a loved one or friend soon after their death?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why do people keep saying they have evidence and have presented it that proves you're wrong even though they have none and haven't presented anything? Furthermore, what do they think you're wrong about?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Why do people with trauma easily recognize other people with trauma through eye contact?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

That's it for today.

My parents force me (15yo atheist) to go to church, and there’s this thing called Small Sundays where we discuss the Bible in groups, there are questions asked about the Bible. What am I supposed to do when they ask?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Do any members of BTS have significant others in real life? If so, why do they choose not to discuss it publicly?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Making more friends is a goal.

My husband asked me why do I keep on complaining about him cheating. Why don't I just leave?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Do you think it is likely that Maegor was presented a young dragon at some point, almost to the point of full-bonding, only to scorn it for Balerion in the end? If so, which one could it have been?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Procrastinates a lot.

How is it, in the USA, a country with 334 million people, the choice of President comes down to two aged men, one of whom is a liar as well as a criminal, one who appears to be on his way to dementia. Surely a democratic country can put up better?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What I need from you?

Does not procrastinate.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Ask yourself: